Ask about the present
“What kind of connection are you looking for?” is more useful than asking someone to prove a history of queer relationships.
Start with clarity
Your orientation does not dictate your relationship structure
Bisexuality describes a capacity for attraction; it does not reveal whether someone is monogamous, polyamorous, currently dating, equally attracted to every gender, or interested in a particular person. Ask about the individual instead of turning stereotypes into compatibility tests.
A useful profile can name your orientation, pronouns, current relationship status and what you want now. No one owes a dating history, a gender ratio or a defence of their label.
Better connection
Better questions for bi dating
Do not equate bi with available
Bisexual people still have individual boundaries, preferences and agreements. Attraction to more than one gender is not attraction to everyone.
Name relationship agreements
If you are partnered or non-monogamous, state that early and explain what is agreed—without speaking for anyone else.
A clear path
How bisexual dating works on Verve
Create your account in a browser
Use a supported browser on a phone, tablet, laptop or desktop, including supported browsers on iPhone and iPad. The same website is used across devices.
Complete application review
Applicants submit a current selfie. Automated checks assess whether one face is present and whether it appears consistent with the moderated profile photo; every submission remains pending for human review before member access. This can reduce some misuse, but it cannot prove identity, age, gender, intentions, safety or future conduct.
Set honest expectations
Describe the kind of connection you want, choose discovery preferences, and add enough detail for another person to start a real conversation. A label never replaces clear communication or consent.
Connect, pause or report
Use dating, chat and community features where current membership is available. If something feels wrong, stop engaging and use the relevant report control when available or email verve@verve.dating. Verve does not promise a fixed response time.
Specific, not absolute
Profile review is a layer, not a promise
Verve requires a current selfie as part of its application process. Automated checks assess one-face presence and apparent consistency with the moderated profile photo; every submission remains pending for human review before member access. An approved profile means the application passed that process at the time it was assessed.
It does not certify identity, age, gender, relationship status, intentions, location or future behaviour. People can misrepresent themselves, and conduct can change. Keep your own boundaries, use public first meetings, arrange independent transport, never send money, and report pressure, impersonation or harassment.
Selfie and application-review records are handled for application assessment, safety, fraud prevention, security and legal purposes under Verve’s Privacy Policy. Access is restricted, and retention depends on those purposes; Verve does not claim that every record disappears immediately after a decision or account deletion.
Know before joining
Free access, Premium and device availability
What the free tier includes
Approved free members can browse Orbit profiles without a daily profile limit, send up to 10 outgoing likes per day, keep unlimited one-to-one chats, and join up to 10 public groups or non-general community spaces under a shared limit. Community participation, event browsing and RSVP, and venue-map browsing are also included. Verve does not and will not show ads inside the member experience.
What web Premium adds
Web Premium adds unlimited outgoing likes and unlimited joined public groups or non-general communities; Who Liked You; full alignment details; advanced and keyword filters; location changes; private groups; Mixer; profile customisation and themes; Discover and Learn content; and venue submissions.
Web price: 5.50 per month or 55 per year in AUD, USD, CAD, EUR or GBP, including applicable tax, when that checkout currency is selected. Subscriptions renew until cancelled and are managed through Verve and PayPal. Read the Subscription Terms before subscribing; no price or feature guarantees are implied beyond the published terms.
Verve works in supported modern browsers on phones, tablets, laptops and desktops, including supported browsers on iPhone and iPad.
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Clear answers
Bisexual Dating Without the Stereotypes FAQ
Is Verve open to bisexual women?
Yes. Eligible bisexual women are part of Verve’s women-first lesbian, sapphic and queer community. Compatible non-binary adults may also be eligible under the published rules.
Does bisexual mean non-monogamous?
No. Sexual orientation and relationship structure are different. A bisexual person may prefer monogamy, polyamory, another consensual structure or be undecided.
What does Verve account review guarantee?
It does not guarantee identity, age, gender, intentions, relationship status, location, safety or future conduct. Applicants submit a current selfie; automated checks assess one-face presence and apparent consistency with the moderated profile photo, and every submission remains pending for human review before member access.
Can I use Verve on a phone, tablet or computer?
Yes. Verve works through supported web browsers on phones, tablets, laptops and desktops, including supported iPhone and iPad browsers.
Ready to meet people your way?
Create a free Verve account in your browser. Complete application review, then explore dating, friendship, chat, community spaces and events where available.